
Photo: Jennifer and I hanging out with Terrance Simien after a show, Sept. 2025.
And it turns out, she still does.
Thirty-two years ago, on the night before Thanksgiving, I met Jennifer, my wife-to-be, in a bar on Madison Street in Forest Park, Illinois. Appropriately enough, we met by the jukebox where my longtime friend Joel insisted that I help her pick out a few songs, which must have seemed really strange to her.
Despite that potentially awkward introduction, Jennifer stuck with me, and from the beginning, music played a central role in our relationship.
In our early years, we saw some great shows at FitzGerald’s Nightclub, a legendary venue in the western suburbs of Chicago, including C.J. Chenier, Terrance Simien, and a band that we would follow for decades to come: The Mavericks, a Latin-influenced alt-country band out of Miami. Not long after that show, the Mavericks were all over the country music awards shows, and their career really took off.
But then, of course, we started having kids, and both money and time were in short supply. So, we took an involuntary hiatus from concert-going for … well … a long time. I like to say that until the mid twenty-teens, my last relevant cultural reference was Pearl Jam’s Vitalogy album, released in 1994, followed by an endless stream of Pixar movies and Nickelodeon.
Not that that’s a bad thing.
Eventually, however, you emerge from that fog. Once our kids were older and we had a little more disposable income, we reconnected with pop culture in general and music in particular. Especially concerts.
In addition to seeing Garland Jeffreys on several occasions (as I’ve mentioned before), we’ve seen, in no particular order, Keb’ Mo’, Little Steven and the Disciples of Soul, Living Colour, the Mavericks (five or six times), Los Lobos (twice), John Hiatt, Rosanne Cash (twice), LP, Bob Mould, Raul Malo (of Mavericks fame), Taj Mahal, Graham Parker, Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes (twice), James Maddock, Jake Clemons, Steve Earle, Terrance Simien (again), Dwight Yoakam … and we traveled to Dublin to see Bruce Springsteen twice.
And then there was that guy at a pub called Sin é in Cork City who played “The City of New Orleans,” by Chicago’s own Steve Goodman (a song John Prine called “the best damn train song ever wrote”). That guy — the Irish singer — didn’t care for Bruce Springsteen, but to each their own.
Anyway, that may not be not a lot of concerts for you youngsters, but for a couple of old folks (well, I’m old, anyway), that’s not too bad.
Oh, and I almost forgot! We also took several guitar classes together at Old Town School of Folk Music, another Chicago institution.
So, needless to say, it’s been a pretty spectacular 32 years! I may not make it another 32, but I’m looking forward to the next concert. And the one after that. And the one after that.
And I promise not to commandeer any jukeboxes from here on out.





